Healthy Moms matter too

How many times have I heard that phrase, "No matter what happenned, you have a healthy baby". Isnt thats all that is important. Yes that is important and yes that is the most important part but that does not means that healthy moms are not important.

I love my baby and I would do it all again for him but I detest the fact that I have a huge abdominal scar, i am still anemic, I am unable to lift him and the car seat together still and I still get nightmares about the IVC Filter