Wednesday 1 October 2008

Writing is Therapeutic

Nothing to me has been more therapeutic than putting in writing what I feel about the whole incident. Puting in words that I feel betrayed and hurt about all this. Many times we keep quiet aout how we feel by another person's wrongdoing.

Then again we are giving chance to such individuals to hurt people again and again. Like it was told to me by the heamatologist "We do it always, a person has to say suspicion and we start the treatment". And by the time person sees his or her medical records it is too late for him or her to do anything. At the end of three months when he sees suspicion the window has gone out to verify whether clots existed in first place.

Why choose a doctor wisely?

After my hospital ordeal, for first two weeks I was shocked. Then I started looking into new doctors and was shocked when all doctors denied to look at my c section wound.

I had a gaping 5 inch x 1 inch x 1 inch wound that dripped enough to soak half a dozen pads per day. Because of liability issues all doctors refused to touch it till Dr Vimi Bajaj gives me my records or request in writing

Since Dr Bajaj refused to give me my records, I was left with no choice but to depend on her for my wound care. So better be safe than sorry. Choose doctors judiciously because once the case is spoiled, you would have a hard time finding someone who would even touch you till the first one is healed

Happy Birthday Sweetheart

Today is my darling husband's birthday. I am such blessed to have a wonderful. loving , caring husband and not only this he is very handsome and also is in a great job. What more can a girl ask for.

All through my hospital ordeal he has been a pillar of strength. He leaves for work at 5.40 in the morning to avoid traffic. For 16 weeks, he would get up at 4.00, clean and pack my wound, then go to work, then come back at 5.00 clean my wound again, play with the baby while I get some rest

Many time people asked him, doesnt he gets disgusted and he would reply, "Oh!, Its nothing", No one could have done what he did.

And he puts up with my cribbings and cries, give me endurance that things will be all right

Happy Birthday sweetheart and Thank you for everything you mean to me